A: When you decide it's worth fighting for...
Unless some real irrevocable damage has been done, there's always a chance to rebuild what you once had. In fact 90% of the time there's no reason why you cannot stop a break up and get your ex back, providing you know the steps necessary to win them back.
Many walk away from what was basically a sound relationship, allowing pride to prevent them from trying to patch things up, or if they do try, they undoubtedly go about it in completely the wrong way, perhaps understandably letting their volatile emotional state rule the day...
Make no mistake, if you want to stop the break up and get your ex back, you are going to have to put emotion to one side, temporally and have a plan.
A plan based on the real facts of human attraction...
Your first step is to completely withdraw from the situation... stop calling, stop texting... give yourself and your ex a little breathing space, Mister babache a little time for you both to get things clear.
There is a very good chance you've allowed yourself to become overwhelmed, thinking about your ex continuously, and in this overly emotional state you're in danger of putting yourself in a tough position leaving yourself little room for maneuver... and...
As cynical as it may sound right now, getting your ex back is all about maneuvers.
Another very important step in getting your ex back, is not to attempt to get them to feel sorry for you... and at all costs... do not appear needy... this may be difficult for you, if at this moment, it's exactly what you're feeling... you may feel the need to cling on... especially if you are still in the relationship and trying to stop a break up, but... this is the polar opposite of what you need to do... appearing desperate and needy will only transfer the power to your ex, who will then use it to push you still further away...
It's a fact that no one feels attraction to needy people...
Begging and pleading will never work... if it did it would only be temporary... Both men and women are drawn to feel attraction for strong and independent individuals. Try to remember why you got together in the first place. What did you do to feel good? What made you laugh?
If you don't feel partially strong right now, that's okay... it's a process... just know that it's important to have a plan... and to understand how attraction works... this is your best chance of getting your ex back and rebuilding your relationship perhaps even stronger than it was in the past...
If you're serious about saving your relationship and want to know exactly what you should and should not be doing to give yourself the best chance to stop your break up and get your ex back... here's a short video that just might help... watch it at the link below...
I'm Rooting For Ya!
"My mission...It's about helping people...Rebuilding Relationships, Reconnecting people...It's about Restoring Passion and Putting Families Back Together..." Brye Bishop Get My Ex Back
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